Lesbian And Bi PersonalsThe way you create your lesbian or bi personal reveals a lot about you. Details like your age, height or level of education are not necessarily as revealing as the way you choose to present yourself. How you choose to describe and photograph yourself, and the words you use to describe what you want from the other members, informs the world whether you are a romantic, a pragmatist, a great friend or a total sex fiend!
An Effective Lesbian or Bi Personal
Take a moment to think about the image you are presenting with your profile. Are you presenting a unified image, or a discordant one? For example, one of our lesbian members wrote in that she was very romantic, serious and tender, had children, and wanted to find her soul mate to begin a lifelong commitment together. Her photo, on the other hand, was a picture of her taken from behind, lifting her short skirt to reveal her thong.
Now, there's nothing wrong with either the photo or the written profile. When presented together, however, they make the member seem hard to figure out. If a girl wants to upload a snap of her sexy thong, that's wonderful. It means she's a hot girl who loves sex and is looking for a partner or two to enjoy hot times together. Coupled with a plea for a commitment-minded soul mate, however, it's very discordant.
Think about the slang you use in your written profile--does it represent the real you? Also, be sure to check for spelling errors. No one would argue that spelling is the basis for a romantic relationship, but you will attract the best people for you by putting your best foot forward.